Players are masters of the art of seduction and mystery. They define the game and play it well. Due to their calculative instinct, they can spot a prey from afar and exploit their prey’s emotions to their advantage. These fast attractive thinkers are sometimes easy to identify.
Women have constantly been told to avoid to players yet, they repeatedly fall and ignore all the red flags. The assumption that they can change a player is arguably wrong. Less than 1% of women who try getting a player to commit exclusively fail. A lot of women can confirm that the longer you invest in a relationship with a player, the longer you postpone your ‘inevitable’ heartache.
Although players are drawn to all kinds of women, there are certain characteristics they are majorly drawn to:
- Women who are desperate to have a man to call theirs top the list. Do not confuse this with asking a man out. Some men find women who ask them out bold and attractive. It is different when she holds onto a man who shows any signs of care and gives a little attention. This desperation exposes their vulnerability to these men.
- With the advent of the social media, a lot of women’s insecurity are put on public display. Women who have put up nudes just for validation purposes and women who constantly talk about their insecurity make their list.
- Women who do not have a stable relationship with their fathers fall prey to these men. They know you desperately need a father figure and a man to love so they manipulate you into believing they are “the one” until they get what they want.
- Show us a woman with no standards and we’d show you a woman who has been used and dumped severally by a player. Women who are confident and independent command the respect of players.
- When a woman is naïve and immature in relationship dealings, she becomes an easy target.
How do you avoid them?
Now that you know what they look out for, genuinely ask yourself questions and work on those flaws.